Divine Union
3 steps - 3 pillars - 3 frequencies
Divine Love, the remembrance of the frequency of unconditional love that allows us to achieve inner union, and oneness with the universe, and form aligned and divine relationships based on soul connection, truth, sovereignity and authenticity.
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3 steps
there are three key steps to achieving divine union with your soul's aligned counterpart
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1. healing & understanding polarity of feminine & masculine:
you must start from healing, embarking on a journey of shadow work to understand you armor - what are you made of? what shadows block the unique frequency of you soul? what traits and patterns of your ego still separate you from the divine? once you embark on this journey you will start to understand the differences between the feminine and the masculine energy, as we all carry both within. the feminine is the creation, her dominium is spirit realm, she is stillness, the inner world of our existence; the masculine is the execution, his dominium is physical realm, he is action, the external world of our existence.
2. inner union:
when you have healed and integrated your shadows, previously rejected parts of your psyche, you are in better understanding of self and your existence. you have healed both the masculine and the feminine energy within you, now you can teach them to interact with each other (you can learn more about this process in next sections). this healthy and harmonious interaction ensures the masculine and feminine energy exist in synergy, learning from each other, thriving in joint strength. this is when the inner union occurs, and your inner energies operate in yin & yang wholeness.
3. leading with feminine / masculine energy:
as individual you operate from a place of wholeness, you call in your inner feminine and masculine whenever they are needed, meanwhile they always operate jointly as one organism. as you connect to another individual with objective of forming union, one part of whole must raise into their masculine energy and the other must drop into their feminine energy. that is how you achieve wholeness in divine union, two becoming one.
3 pillars
there are three pillars of divine love that must be present as foundation of your relationship to reach divine union and to be able to hold it. remember, you must first achieve inner union, so those pillars must first be embodied internally - between your inner feminine and masculine, so you can externalize this frequency in a relationship
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1. trust:
there is no union without full trust. the masculine must surrender to the feminine and vice versa. the masculine must learn to trust the feminine - the intuition, the connection to void, the connection to spirit, the inspiration and the creative force, and in this trust, take the feminine energy and translate it into physical world to take action, move forward, create in the physical, build structure and stability. meanwhile the feminine must trust the masculine that he knows how to translate her energy into the physical world, without control or unnecessary interference, in full submission.
2. equality:
there is no union without understanding, on a very core level, that feminine and masculine are equals. none is superior to another, they are different, they bring different things to the table, they rule different realms, however one is not whole without the other, they must thrive in their differences and never question the value of one another.
3. oneness:
there is no union without true oneness. the feminine and the masculine must fuse into oneness, become extension of one another. this is the key to expansion and growth. in external union, both must understand that the other is simply an extension of their essence in another body, each action and decision must be taken with full consideration of another, as it is part of you. understand that all that you are and feel is always transferred to another. you do not put yourself as priority, nor do you put the other as priority, you are one.
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read more about equality & oneness below, in 'two parts of a whole' sección
3 frequencies
there are three frequencies that you need to understand and embody to achieve inner union and embody divine love. understanding the difference between the distorted and the divine version of those energies is crucial to fully learn to embody them and move from fear to love.
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Feminine Energy
when DIVINE, feminine is:
sensual, creative, nurturing, strong, loving, supportive, has strong boundaries, vulnerable, accepting, trusting, compassionate, intuitive, caring, patient, authentic, receptive, gatekeeper, private, demure, connected to nature, asks
for what she needs, connected
deeply to her body
when DISTORTED, feminine is:
depressed, needy, dramatic, powerless, manipulative, has unfair expectations, attention seeking, insecure, anxious, fearful, victim mentality, people pleaser, self sacrificing, overshares, gossips, codependent, validation seeking, no boundaries, desperate for love, shames her body
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Masculine Energy
when DIVINE, masculine is:
protector, provider, leader, action oriented, present, committed, powerful, humble, structured, attentive, capable, decision maker, acts with integrity, focused, disciplined, grounded, logical, honest, intuitive
when DISTORTED, masculine is:
attached to success, has fear of failure, needs to be right, aggressive, cold, distant, undisciplined, controlling, dominating, jealous, untrusting, defensive, stubborn, critical, judgmental, selfish, detached from emotions
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Love
~From Fear to Love~
LOVE is
oneness, compassion, patience, unity, potential, abundance, growth, courage, equality, honesty, empathy, balance, acceptance, openness, transformation, cooperation, understanding, integrity, presence, self-consciousness, mindfulness, peace, generosity
FEAR is
judgement, assumptions, division, anxiety, separation, competition, stubbornness, close mindedness, insistence, dominance, lies, additions, deceptions, demands, numbness, avoidance, selfishness, ego centered, defensiveness, auto pilot, manipulation, distractions
The energy flow triangle
The divine feminine is the portal to the spirit realm. Through the portal of her womb she connects to the void - for answers, for guidance. Her role in this world, and in divine union, is to be the high priestess, always looking towards The Most High, focusing on her divinity & on her mission. She leads in the spirit realm, providing divine protection & guidance to her masculine. By offering her devotion to God, she ensures both her & her masculine are granted protection & divine alignment, allowing their energies to raise above shallow physical existence. ​​
The divine masculine is the container, the builder of the physical realm. His role in this world, and in divine union, is to be the protector & the provider, to always look towards his feminine for inspiration & guidance, as she is his connection to higher realms. He leads in the physical realm, providing protection & safety to his feminine. By offering his devotion to his feminine, and through her to God, he remains connected to the divine aspect of his existence, which allows him to build physical world that is led by love, compassion, inspiration, generosity, collaboration & kindness.
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Through the portal of the feminine, the masculine can stay connected to higher realms, with her guidance he stays aligned and taped into his divine mission. As he offers his devotion & protection to her, she can offer hers to The Most High, who will bless the masculine with abundance he needs to become a divine leader & builder of the physical reality.
Two parts of a whole
As per divine order, the feminine and the masculine are equals. They have different role in this world, thus they master different things, however it is through oneness and divine union that they achieve their full potential.
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The feminine is the master of 5D, spirit realm is her dominium. Her body is designed to to always stay connected to the Universe, through the portal of her womb. She is the one that gives life, the one that is the creatrix, the one that controls the chaos, the temple of divinity that carries element of Source, of God, within. The feminine operates in constant connection to what is unseen and unknown to the physical world, she can travel to the void, to quantum field, in search for answers and for guidance. She holds the wisdom of her ancestors. She is intuitive, sensitive, creative, loving and always surrendered to the flow of life. Because of that, she is the protector of the masculine energy in the physical realm, she brings in the guidance, the answers, the divine protection and divine blessings. She is the gatekeeper, the standard holder, and the oracle. That is her role in this world. She understands her role, as the initiator of the divine flow and the creatrix, and in this physical world she surrenders to the direction of the masculine.
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The masculine is the master of 3D, physical realm is his dominium. His body is designed to stay grounded, focused and determined, it follows the daily cycle of our planet. He is the one that protects life, the one that is the architect of the matrix, the one that has the power to give this world direction. He possesses all the qualities to build and govern the physical kingdom. Because of that he must stay connected to the feminine, the temple of the divine, to ensure the physical world we live in is not deprived of Spirit, and is always raised above the level of the heart - the bridge between the realms. He devotes himself to the feminine, recognizing her as his oracle and link to God. He is the leader, the action taker, the structure, the logic, the one that acts with dedication, commitment and integrity to ensure the physical world we live in is safe, and follows divine order, for the benefit of humanity. He becomes the protector and provider of the feminine, the one that gives direction to her guidance and inspiration.
They both follow each other and surrender to each other, in their own respective realms, creating oneness with each other and through the feminine, with the Universe. ​
In Sovereignty and Devotion
In order to achieve divine union with your counterpart (whether it's your soulmate or your twin flame) you must offer freedom to each other. True divine union cannot be built of frequency of codependency, and although the love is deep and profound, and offers another level of fulfillment in your life, your individual fulfillment cannot be dependent on that love.
True soul connections are incredibly powerful, the frequency of your souls is very similar (for soulmates) if not exactly same (for twin flames), this is why once you meet your counterpart you feel the soul recognition and the magnetic pull towards each other that doesn't come from the ego, but from the soul (how you know the difference? well, soul recognition pushes you to become 'a better person', a purer version of self, through multiple deaths and rebirths, through multiple realizations - it invites you to course correct towards alignment, it allows you to connect with the Creator, no matter how much you resist, you always evolve. Your human existence is now divided between who you were before and after meeting your counterpart, those become two different people).
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How does the feminine return freedom to the masculine?
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As you may already know from my other articles, one of the most important qualities of divine feminine energy is self love. Through her own devotion to the self - the feminine - the portal to higher realms - to God, she expands her consciousness beyond human existence and the physical world. She becomes the high priestess for herself, for her masculine, for her community and for this world. To return freedom to herself and to her masculine, the feminine must become fully sovereign - free of any codependencies, especially those to her divine masculine counterpart, but also codependencies to anything - her family, her dreams, her aspirations, her mission. She must embody the understanding of soul's freedom: 'I am everything I need nothing', my worth is unconditional, thriving is my birthright and I owe nothing to no one.
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How does she do that? How does it look like?
Well, the feminine becomes free once she is capable of living a happy, fulfilled, joyful life on her own, without her masculine counterpart. She thrives in life, regardless if he does choose her or not. Her frequency, decisions, state of mind does not depend on his. This goes so much deeper than simply walking away from a man that doesn't choose you, that doesn't respect you or that doesn't reciprocate your energy. This is walking away and understanding that all the sadness, all the pain and all the struggle aren't caused by lack of his love or presence, they are caused by her own shadows. Walking away in the physical world, yet suffering and longing for the masculine will not return his freedom to him. As long as her fulfillment depends on him, she is still codependent, creating a strong energetic karmic cord between them.
Now, feeling fulfilled and thriving in live without your masculine, doesn't mean that you no longer love him, or desire to be together. In true soul connections this desire will never leave you, for as long as you draw breath. But it's essential not to allow this desire to control your life, your emotions and your state of being. The desire must surrender to trust in God, what is yours will find it's way back to you, in divine timing.
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Why her suffering and emotional state of being keeps him bind?
Remember, true soul connections go beyond the physical realm. Your situation in 3D is only a small part of the equation. You would have learned from my divine masculine masterclass, that freedom (especially in 3D) is incredibly important for the masculine energy. Subconsciously he always knows that the feminine energy, being the closest thing to God on Earth, holds some level of power over the masculine. The feminine leads in higher realms, the feminine (within and without) is the creation. This is also why, the focus on self for the feminine, liberates both. Now, if you walk away in the physical world, because your masculine is not offering commitment, devotion, respect - you are removing yourself from his physical world, however if you continue to suffer and long for him, his soul will know. Our emotions create energetic cords with other people, low frequency emotions like pain, regrets or longing, create karmic cords. The soul of the masculine will only feel free once it will feel that no matter what choices he would take, they will not influence the path of the feminine. Even if he chooses not to follow the path of divine love, if he chooses another women, she will continue to thrive on her highest path of alignment. Her full sovereignty returns his freedom.
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How does the masculine return freedom to the feminine?
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For the masculine energy one of the most important qualities is commitment. How he commits to himself, to his path and to his feminine. Just like the feminine, through self love fulfills her mission on earth, as self love creates a bridge to higher realms, through the portal of her womb, the masculine fulfills his mission through commitment and presence. The masculine energy in this physical world is meant to be the builder, the provider and the protector. Those frequencies cannot exist if you don't commit yourself to you, your path and your feminine - the one who is your personal priestess, and connection to higher realms. Commitment allows stability and security that the masculine is meant to provide. To return freedom to himself, and to his feminine, the masculine must become fully devoted - free of chains of low frequency matrix, bodily pleasures, shadows of the ego - pure devotion to divine path.
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How does he do that? How does it look like?
For a very long time the masculine can struggle with low self esteem (especially on the twin flame journey). He defines himself through the prism of his human shadows, of his past choices, and of what happened to him in the past. He walks away from the feminine (whether consciously or subconsciously) thinking that this is how he protects her. He walks away thinking he is not good enough, not worthy of her love, and she would surely be 'better off' without him. This is how he takes away her freedom. Without him knowing, he acts as if she was not capable of taking her own decision. Through this, he not only takes away her freedom of choice, but he places her below him energetically: 'the man knows better what is right'. The masculine becomes free once he is capable of surrendering fully to the intangible of his inner feminine and God.
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Why is his choice to leave keeping her bind?
The greatest chain of the masculine is his own mind. His refusal to believe in anything that is not tangible. He is diminishing and disregarding the feminine energy, not only externally (in his counterpart, or other women) but in himself (inner feminine). He does not trust the feminine energy: the chaos, the intuition, the emotion, the heart, the intangible, the blind trust, the inner knowing, the connection to God and higher realms. You must remember that the destined divine feminine is always the highest path for the masculine. Through pushing away his true counterpart, he pushes away God, he chooses lower timeline, he binds himself to physical realm (of the ego), despite the love he feels in his heart. The denial of his love, and the refusal to surrender to it, creates a karmic cord with the feminine.
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You would have learned above about the energy flow triangle. The masculine energy will never achieve union (internally and externally) if he doesn't fully acknowledge the equality of the two elements (yin & yang). In twin flame connections, if the masculine walks away in the physical world, despite his deep love and desire for the feminine - he is taking control, he is trying to dominate the course of the destiny, without consulting with the heart - the bridge between realms, the feminine within. The divine union cannot be achieved until the masculine humbles. Until he understands he is not above the feminine, he is not above God, and the tangible world he can perceive with his human body senses, is mealy a small element of the entirety of existence. The divine feminine will always sense his desire to control, she will feel he still fights for that control by resisting the love, and submitting to ego shadows. The soul of the feminine will only feel free once the masculine surrenders to the unknown, and returns to her in the physical to offer himself to her. Not knowing would she accept him, not having any tangible proof of her love, not understanding their connection on the level of the mind - trust and courage above the mind. His full devotion returns her freedom. ​​
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This will look different for soulmates and twin flames. If you seek divine love with a soulmate you can walk this path without having have met your soulmate. Each soul has a higher soulmate counterpart, destined to be with them, on their highest most aligned path. Therefore, walking path of alignment being single, you will eventually reach divine union with destined counterpart. Once you meet your soulmate, being in a relationship doesn't guarantee divine union. That is something you must work together towards, once you meet each other. Soulmates can be in a relationship in the physical realm before achieving divine union (or inner union individually). Two soulmates can meet and try to build divine union together, but still fail to find true synergy of souls. This may cause them to eventually separate, or continue together unable to deepen the bond, existing in codependency instead of divine union. It may happen that one soul will choose to continue the path of growth, and the other wont. Then, the one that wishes to grow will have to choose - growth and alignment, over comfort of soulmate relationship, despite lack of divine union. Our hard work gets us to our highest aligned timeline, how that timeline looks like depends on individual soul contracts we have, however it is in fact always, the most fulfilling path a soul can reach.
However, in case of Twin Flames (extremally rare connection, that only fraction of percent of souls incarnating on Earth have) they will not be allowed to be together in the physical world without achieving inner union first, and fully anchoring themselves in their own highest paths, through this they will be naturally pushed towards the divine union in the physical. Once there, they will have to continue to ascend, work on themselves and on their relationship, however the divine union would have been strong enough to persevere, because of the deep inner work they must have done prior.